To most of you, this question probably sounds ridiculous. But I'm 25 years old and have never been in a relationship. Up until 6 months ago I never had any romantic interactions with a girl. Now I've had a fair amount of success since then but nothing has developed into a relationship. The closest thing I've had is a recent development which I posted about previously here with an update here.

As I ask in the update, is that something or nothing? I have no idea how any of this works. How can I turn my interactions into lasting relationships? I've been following seddit for 6 months now and know all the basics but it hasn't given any lasting results. I seem to be able to draw an initial amount of attraction but most of my first dates have been failures. On more than one occasion I've made out and danced with a girl at a club only for the girl to disappear and never return. My experience has left me feeling like the logistics of a relationship developing are nearly insurmountable, yet I have friends who hop from one girlfriend to the next like they're just changing tires. I walk through the city and see people walking around holding hands and I just think how on earth did it actually happen?