I'm going to visit this girl who lives in a country where people are generally pretty physical; hugging, hand-holding and sitting with one's leg touching another's are all fairly commonplace. I went to see her before and even though we really like each other, I think I just wasn't generating the right sexual energy to make things happen.

Normally I'd generate tension with light touching but that just doesn't apply here. So what else can I do? I'm going to be staying in her apartment, so things that I can do in comfortable situations are preferable.