PART I - BOOKS AND OTHER MATERIAL

You are sitting there, thinking no woman will ever want you and that you will die alone, as a virgin, or a guy who really doesn't "get it". You are in a way, doing this to yourself. First stop blaming all other factors but yourself; being good with women is entirely in your hands and it is never too late.

The difference between you and I; is that I turned on "a switch" inside my mind, and started doing something differently. You can do it too. You don't need money, looks, height, fame, magic potions or luck (ok, maybe a little luck, but you will brute force that part by approaching TONNES OF WOMEN anyway..). You just need time, and to get out of your room and do what I tell you to do.

Here is a list of books I have read and applied, in the order I have read them over one year. I have done my first approaches a few hours after I have read the first book over night. I got laid the day after (by simply talking to a cute blonde and leading her but nothing else) SHE HAD A BOYFRIEND. If you follow this guide, you will stop being a boy and become a MAN over the course of a year, or half.

Two books or two different PUA may suggest conflicting ways of meeting women. That's okay, this is not a natural science branch. They both work in practice. Logic does not. Attraction is the opposite of logic. Attraction isn’t a choice; it’s an evolutionary mechanism that takes over our mind and body long enough to make sure we mate with someone with the best possible genes. As someone once said "The heart has its reasons of which reason knows nothing".

Don't try to read everything in order to feel "ready" before going out. Read a chapter and go out to talk to strangers, come back and read another chapter. That is the only way these will work.The game is 1% books and 99% approaches. Reading 100 books and not doing one approach will just make you a very knowledgeable attraction nerd, just like reading all rocket science books doesn't make you a rocket scientist, but a rocket science nerd. You have to "apply" what you learn.

Don't believe every advice you see on the internet either; a wise man once said "There is a very distinct difference between how a man who is getting laid talks, and how a man who isn't talks." We get it when someone is actually approaching and picking up women.

|None of the books or guides below work, unless you put them to use and start approaching multiple women everyday ---|--- All About Women - Giuseppe Notte | This book is helpful in reprogramming your opinions and values about men, women, what we want and what they want. Don't count on it for techniques though. Use for day game.
Double Your Dating - David DeAngelo | David DeAngelo's phenomenal book and viewpoint helps reprogram your values about attraction, and guides you in the right way to develop a cocky and funny personality that attracts women without having the good looks that you thought was required. This works in both day game, and bar game, additionally on the internet. Also his longer and more comprehensive book: "Attraction Isn't A Choice" Attraction Isn't A Choice - David DeAngelo | Much more comprehensive version of "Double Your Dating" which is more of a kick-start book for your new life as a real man who knows what he wants and isn't afraid to get it, while having fun practising comedy. It goes in detail about Attraction, Dating, Evolution, Male Psychology, Female Psychology, Physiology. Read this only after you have read "Double Your Dating" and gained some kind of success using Cocky Comedy. Models - Mark Manson| Mark Manson's book is for the experienced PUA who has gone through routines and canned lines but couldn't make them work for him. He reprograms your mind about men, women and attraction; then goes on to explain his way of honestly and directly approaching women. I suggest you use this for day game. His modest way suggests that you can attract only a very small percentage of women you meet , and that's okay (Which is, not). I don't suggest this book if you are just starting out. Attraction Code - Vin DiCarlo |Vin DiCarlo is the author of "The Pandora's Box" ; the system that lets you categorize women into 8 easily recognized and dealt with types, and identify your type, and target your demographic only. Attraction Code is his honest and direct way of attracting women. This deals with day game more so than bar game. There are VITAL CONCEPTS in this book that you have to learn about yourself as a male, and women and how their minds work. It also teaches you how to deal with other guys (Hint: Not by fighting or arguing) Mystery Method - Mystery | Mystery is one of the creators of the commercial PUA training. His "Method" is an analytical way, an algorithm with clearly defined steps that provides canned lines, routines, stories and lines which help you meet and attract groups of women at bars and nightclubs. He had a reality show where actors who weren't what they claimed to be pretended to be hopeless nice guys. His method is solid, but many women in USA and the UK might have seen the show or heard the lines. Magic Bullets - Nick Savoy |Nick used to manage the company they started with Mystery, and his method is an advanced and updated version of the Mystery Method. His book is very big and useful; as in it will reprogram your way of thinking for a few chapters. Very useful information and insight there. Like all of these books, it is more of a reference book than a novel. You will have to come back to it later multiple times. The first few chapters will change the belief systems of many nice guys out there, and women as well. Mostly for bars, it is pretty scientific. How to Meet and Connect with Women - Wayne Elise | Down to earth natural game. Not very scientific like the previous two books. The Game - Styles aka Neil Strauss | The bald wallflower who started the PUA style himself. Close friends with Mystery. His book "The Rules of the Game" and his Style Life Challenge system teach things in more detail. Famous user of the esoteric arts and cold reading in attraction. He is bald, not very good looking, and has slept with countless beautiful women that you can't even imagine talking to. This is not a guide or something you can learn from. This is a novel that tells you what is possible, in a fun way.

|Additional Resources ---|--- Steve Celeste (Toecutter) - Palmistry| A way of using palm reading for seduction
The Cube| A relational psychology game that lets you cold read women you have just met in a fun way.
Style Life Academy - Cold Reading Handbook | VERY USEFUL little guide for different types of cold reading including the finger game, heart game, tarot et cetera..

|Audio and Video Series ---|--- David DeAngelo Audio Series | There are about 10 series, each of which consisting of a few DVDs or 5-6 CDs. If you are into Cocky Comedy, the fun way of attracting women; you should get hold of all these series and listen to them on your headphones when you go out. I have found "Cocky Comedy" , "Meeting Women in Bars and Clubs", "Meeting Women Online", "Approaching Women", and "Interview Series" to be EXTREMELY HELPFUL. Once you have read your first book and got out in order to approach women and practice your game, you should listen to these seminars on your mp3 player. They are pretty funny, you will laugh, gain confidence, rise your inner state and have more social energy before talking to women. Do this. You don't even have to read, just listen. Pandora's Box System by Vin DiCarlo | This system includes video interviews, audio interviews , pdf course files and quizzes. It's pretty advanced and it won't help you unless you have been approaching and picking up women for a few months or years. This answers your questions about specific girls. "There is this girl I have a crush on, how do I make things work with her?" This system has the answer.

Read, reprogram your mind, and when you feel your views have changed; go out and approach women. Fake confidence until you make it. With approaches and pick ups, confidence will come. You will be afraid out of your mind; but here is the thing: first you approach a woman, AND THEN the fear of approach goes away. Not the other way around.

I won't be replying to specific questions in comments here, you may PM me for personalized advice but give me some time to reply. I'm just doing this to give back to the PUA community who changed the boy I was into the man I am with their advice