So I'm recently getting out of a relationship as an 18 year old high school senior, and it's been a mildly abusive relationship on both ends. Neither of us let each other out and we always argued and she blamed everything on me (it was awful). Anyways, today I'm trying to make changes to better improve myself as a person. What changes do you guys recommend? I'm thinking of hitting the gym, dieting, and forcing myself to be more social. How would you guys approach this? And what motivates you guys to make positive change in your lives, even when things seem tough?