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[–]teeeee-bonez 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
As long as you don't catch feelings and are dating other girls it shouldn't be an issue. It's when you decide you want to date her, get heavily emotionally invested just to find 6 months later shes cheating on you with multiple guys and breaks your heart. That's what you don't want I presume?
And if you have feelings already, yeah, I would back out.
[–]Sovereign_Curtis 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I disagree with /u/teeeee-bonez
Seduction isn't solely for wannabe fuck boys. Those who want to experience a meaningful relationship can also benefit. So just start by asking yourself "what do I want?"
And don't be afraid of being vulnerable with someone you truly care for, because you might get hurt. Be afraid of feeling nothing.
"Seduction isn't solely for wannabe fuck boys. Those who want to experience a meaningful relationship can also benefit. So just start by asking yourself "what do I want?" I completely agree.
My point is that, from his or her description of this girl, she is not ready for a real, monogamous relationship. I'm not saying don't be vulnerable- I'm saying don't be vulnerable with this person. I do not think OP would experience a meaningful relationship with this person
[–]Sovereign_Curtis 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm saying don't be vulnerable with this person. I do not think OP would experience a meaningful relationship with this person
You could be absolutely right. But why avoid something that might likely blow up in your face? Life experiences, all life experiences, are good for us. They make us who we are. They build character. They bestow upon us wisdom. And, again, the only thing to avoid is feeling/experiencing nothing. A wide variety and depth of experience is true wealth.
I say not only take your lumps, but seek them out.
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