I have a couple general questions about feelings & girls to ask. They are not really questions about game, but general behavior questions Ive never seen answered anywhere.

Here is the question: I am a decently attractive guy. Let's say 7 out of 10. Thin, fit, not necessarily insecure with women unless I am extremely impressed by an insanely hot girl (subjectively, to me) which totally disarms me.

Basically when I am in a room full of women, women notice me. Some dont, many dont, but many would look at me flirtatiously if I looked at them intensely and smiled. Basically with many of the girls in a room, say 40-50% of the decently hot ones, I have a chance to start something.

But here it is: I am completely inept in terms of game and generally how to behave with women. I am a child in terms of experience.

My main question is this: Lets say that I know I have a chance with 5 women out of 10 in a room, how do I approach the situation in an alpha/honourable way, if I am attracted equally by all of the ones that seem attracted to me?

Basically do you pick one and focus on her, ignoring all others?

Basically my problem is I feel that amongst many women that I find hot, and they find me hot and a potential match, I just get horny but dont have the strategy to focus and take things to the next level.

I am also afraid to be known as a man-whore who just gets involved with everyone.

So basically I dont know how to address this basic situation (many girls in one place, many like you, you like many of them, how do you move forward)?

Im sure this happens all the time in thousands of places for most guys: From a Starbucks, to a nightclub, or any place where basically you can flirt with girls.

My question is what is the right approach in these situations? Not necessarily a game question, but in terms of the alpha/honourable thing to do?

And I have a million other simple questions such as: - What happens after you get involved with one of these girls? - What happens after you sleep with her? Would you break up with her if all of the sudden she turned out not to have the right personality? Wouldnt this feel like shit after being so close to her (sex or kissing)?

Basically my entire question revolves around the dating and meeting girls experience, which I am totally unfamiliar and not good with.

I have to admit I am also very scared of not being alone anymore, of "letting someone in". I feel a girl can quickly take over your life in the wrong way, and I fear that, so I have trouble committing or initiating anything which may lead me to having to make decisions later about that.

Yes I am a deeply flawed individual who has no clue about Women, but please have some understanding (I am trying to evolve).