I feel like I will never be the "man" women want

2016-05-30T19:22:00+00:00

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recyclablebanthas · 2016-05-31T00:41:03+00:00

I look great, clothes on though and I still look like a skinny nerd IMO. I have a great job, hobbies, great friends.

Get your a-- to the sidebar, man. Read through the first links and the FAQ, etc. They literally have a section titled, "Looks don't matter." And it's not that they don't completely, but there's so much leeway according to attitude that you could literally be overweight, have an overbite, and wide set eyes a d you could still have game. (I'm describing someone I used to know. )

All your "description" of yourself actually describes your mentality. Think about it. You're fit and somehow you think women can't tell through your clothes? Unless you're wearing the baggiest stuff possible, that's not likely.

Also your inventory of assets, combined with your assessment of those assets, come off like a ridiculous list of first world problems. Cut yourself a damn break, man! What the hell do you have to do before you allow yourself to bask in it a little?

Do you realize how many people here are struggling to get friends, a career, and fitness?

You have a "great job," look "great without a shirt on," cultivate a circle of friends, and have a life, in general. You're listing things that make you quite desirable.

And yet we have the misleading title of your post.

I'm pretty outgoing with friends and love to laugh and talk. I'm not the strong, silent man that women are attracted to.

So you get people to open up and don't complicate socializing by making people put effort into interactions than they get back from you?

You realize that the silent type thing as some ideal, is bullshit, right?

Of course introverts have people who are attracted to that, but there's not one type.

No, what's happening is that there are women into you RIGHT now and you're working overtime to convince yourself otherwise.

PaulDolphin · 2016-05-31T07:09:06+00:00

Love your self or nobody will. You're worth how much you value yourself

ROCKSTARMANIC · 2016-05-31T16:50:53+00:00

Always put value in yourself first. That should be the first law of values. Work on yourself, fuck those other people that don't think your the man you intend to be. There is nothing wrong with being a nerd. But just remember that creating value within yourself the most important thing.

Title	I feel like I will never be the "man" women want
Author	DenOfThieves13
Upvotes	5
Comments	4
Date	May 30, 2016 7:11 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/4lr33q/i_feel_like_i_will_never_be_the_man_women_want/
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