Hello there. As the title says, I may be confronting myself with an identity crisis. What this means: I was a very shy kid in my teens. I kinda overcame this now, as I am no longer socially anxious and quite charismatic, funny, and socially smart. The problem is, most of the times I am trapped between the "alpha male" state and the "nice guy" state. I feel that, when I use the alpha techniques, they don't work. And I am very motivated to lose the "nice guy" persona. Also, I frequently feel that I just can't connect with people, no matter who they are and where they came from. Some people, especially girls literally don't take me serious. The last problem would be sexual connection. I just can't give them signals without coming as creepy, and that kills me. That would be my biggest weakness. I am very tired, and maybe this post is not clear, so I will give additional explanations in the comment section. Thanks in advance!