Anyway to calm my nervousness when I'm around women I would like to attract?

2016-06-11T19:03:36+00:00

Progressively desensitize yourself - I remember a time where I'd tense up and shake around attractive women.

After working somewhere part time where pretty women very regularly talk to me and going to college for almost 4 years, I'll get nerves when I'm approaching pretty women, but that's expected. Otherwise, I'm completely normal and go about what I'm doing or talking to them.

I'd say if you work in a metal factory, don't go to school, and see one or two pretty women every week, start out small and work your way up.

Practice being present and calmly breathing at first, focus on the conversations, enjoying yourself while you're out.

Then when you can do that make eye contact and smile with pretty girls near you, and say "Hi". That's it! Run away if you want after.

After that start introducing yourself with the aforementioned eye contact and smile.

And after that give a pretty girl a genuine compliment and introduce yourself, and see where things go after that.

And keep in mind during all of this, women are just cute little creatures, not wolves who are trying to intimidate you.

Title	Anyway to calm my nervousness when I'm around women I would like to attract?
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Date	June 11, 2016 6:20 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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