I am a long time lurker but I'm posting this question to see what TRP has to say. My wife told me about her coworker that actually hired a matchmaker to find a Rich Husband. I had a good laugh when she told me that because I have met this person and to name a few negative observations: She is pushing forty, she is just mean and constantly has a scow on her face, and most of all, she is the direct product of our schools and society as well as the type of work she is in, which is a constant subjection to mandatory EEO classes for all employees. So overall, she knows her rights which I heard her say as well as other comments that would scare away any decent man. After I laughed about it, I suddenly realized that there is NO WAY she is dumb enough to spout any of this crap to a potential mate. As a matter of fact, it made me realize that the majority of female 2x chromosome and the blue pill posters would NOT say any of that stuff out loud to an alpha male that she would want for a LTR. Here lies the contradiction. If she speaks her mind and "be herself," she won't attract that rich alpha male but has plenty of beta orbiters who she must be disgusted with them since she is hiring a matchmaker.

Side-note, for xx chromosome/TBP male posters: you may think that agreeing with her modern views will ingratiate you to her, but she is either settling for you or friendzoned you until Prince Charming comes along. Which is what this situation taught me.

I am writing for all the guys out there that may run into this type of women. How do you spot someone like that before it is too late? I am picturing her not finding a rich husband (another laugh thinking about that) but finding a decent stable middle income guy that is going to find out the hard way that she is a crazy bitch. I am not insulting her, I have met her, she is nuts with the empowerment what yours is ours but what mine is mine mentality.

tl:dr This is a pleading for a PSA on how do you spot a girl that is seriously keeping a lid on her true self?