Girl invited me to go with her and her friends to the bar. Advice?

MindsEvolve · 2016-08-04T20:16:55+00:00

Life just presented you with an opportunity to get comfortable in group situations. Focus on just having a good time and work the group. This will put you at "baller" status with her and increase the attraction. Then SHE will want to go right into building comfort and isolate YOU. If you try to isolate her too early, it will show that you're worried and acting out of fear, so we don't want that. Talk to a friend on the way there or try to find a way to socially warm up beforehand if you can.

Idea: Ask the group if they want to play "Never have I ever" and be a leader.

Best of luck.

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Cynical_Doggie · 2016-08-04T22:48:30+00:00

I'd not go, because being 4th+ wheel isn't what I'd want to do. What I want would be 1-1 time with the girl.

It's not worth your time to be 'suffering' just for the sake of politeness or abundance of time.

I would just cancel, and tell her, 'you should spend time with your friends'

Now if she insists on you joining, then, the ball is in your court.

Title	Girl invited me to go with her and her friends to the bar. Advice?
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Date	August 4, 2016 7:54 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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