I want to become a seducer. Seddit, teach me!

2016-08-11T20:37:15+00:00

I like your passion. That's your flame - all you need now is fuel. But first, stop "wanting" everything. Focus yourself on the process, not the result. You will never be a finished product. There is always room for improvement. You don't want pretension to stunt your development. Your focus should be on self-overcoming, your only competition is the person you are today. So, without further ado:

Confidence: A confident man tolerates his uncertainty. He puts himself first, but he also puts himself in a place where he can be rejected. He is audacious, he is courageous and he knows he will be just fine in spite of the things that can go wrong. He is optimistic, he takes responsibility for his fate and life. He respects people, loves them, but he is never intimidated by them, knowing they are human beings just like him. He lets go and he surrenders to the moment. He leads. Why? Because he is a masculine man, he tolerates not being certain all the time and deals with the vicissitudes of life.
Charisma: A charismatic man is a magnet, he attracts the attention of a room because his presence excites people. He listens because he doesn't need to impress. He is not in reaction, he is unreactive. He draws people in because he expresses himself freely and without a filter.

Be masculine. Assume the responsibility for your actions. Trust yourself, value yourself, put yourself first. Express and understand people. Focus on emotions and in your frame. Take a little weight and importance off your words. Honest communication is not verbal.

Finally, be bold, make things happen, make a move, trust your gut. This is key! It's not about the action itself, it's about sending a message. ;)

Syndrome-of-a-Down · 2016-08-12T08:38:41+00:00

Here you go: https://www.amazon.com/The-Alabaster-Girl-Zan-Perrion/dp/0992016606

robreins · 2016-08-11T20:37:07+00:00

Ok Let's start...

Lesson #1: Be direct, clear and cut the bullshit. Tell us in 1 sentence what you want to do because it's so unclear from what you wrote.

ThrowawayPUA · 2016-08-11T21:15:52+00:00

Start reading the links in the sidebar, get up to speed on basic concepts, and then you can ask better questions.

Title	I want to become a seducer. Seddit, teach me!
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Date	August 11, 2016 6:13 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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