Find a Guy Who Gets Laid a Lot, Hang Out With Him, and Do What He Does...

[deleted] · 2014-08-03T11:13:36+00:00

My cousin got laid a lot and seemed to be an "alpha". He also bitches about how his new girlfriend won't say she loves him back, spends all of his time with her instead of his friends even when she doesn't want to, and buys her things when she acts like a little girl instead of rewarding her when she treats him like a king first.

Just observe these guys, take what you want from it, and meld it into your own inner masculine toolbox. Sort of like TRP. Not everything here is going to be stuff you want to use or care about. The golden nuggets found are the ones you place in your toolbox because they make you rich.

anonlymouse · 2014-08-03T10:07:42+00:00

It's not particularly good advice anyway. Doing what he does only works if you're otherwise like him. Is he rich and you're poor? Screwed. Is he hot and you're ugly? Screwed.

What you need to do is look at the qualities that guys having sex have, and what you can do about that. If you live with your parents, you're going to have a hard time. If you live with roommates, it's better. If you have your own place, that's when it gets easier. So if you don't already have your own place, make sure you're able to make enough money to get that, and then move out. Your own place is an indicator of how much money you have, money indicates success, success is attractive. In that sense you might be doing what he does, but you don't need to hang out with him to emulate those aspects.

real-boethius · 2014-08-03T11:31:34+00:00

This doesn't really work. First the person may be a natural and have no idea what they are actually doing that is attractive. Second they may be good looking / tall / rich or otherwise high status and attractive to women. Hanging with a good looking guy is not going to make you good looking.

MasterMH · 2014-08-03T09:30:36+00:00

Bollocks. Everyone wants to hang out with everyone. To a certain extent. Go and say hi, "did you see the game last night" or something. "Fancy a beer?" Its ridiculously easy to get to know people. All you have to do is make the effort and be prepared to be rejected. Although - people WANT friends. Its hard to fail this.

Remember though - its YOU that has to take action if you want to hang out with HIM. Excuses are just reasons you haven't done something.

Title	Find a Guy Who Gets Laid a Lot, Hang Out With Him, and Do What He Does...
Author	feelinglazy
Upvotes	5
Comments	6
Date	August 3, 2014 9:11 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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