I'll do my best to summarize my current situation:

  • F-closed a girl
  • Started to get to know her more
  • Got drunk and she rode/grinded and gave me a hand job while on her period
  • From ^ this point on shes blue balled me over and over. We foreplay and I try to escalate and I get shut down. I asked her why today and she told me shes not in the mood.... its been almost 2 1/2 weeks so i guess she'll never be in the mood :(

I know the number one reason I'm not getting any action is myself but she's receptive up until I try to escalate which just leaves me confused.