So I've almost completely gotten over text anxiety, however I do need to work on cold approaches more, but I'll often try and talk to girls in the same class as me when it ends. I often get thier number but I stumble on the first text.
I think the root of the problem is that I need to be more clear of my intentions when talking to them, I need to clarify I'm talking to them because I'm interested. I need to do that before I ask for thier number. But even if I improve on that, I'm not really sure what to text.
Here are my last few first texts:
"Hey, it's 921ninja. I liked talking to you, we should go out and do something sometime"
"Yea, I don't know why doing that fixes it but just does lol" (Second time talking to her, got her number a couple days before and ended up helping her get something working in her PC)
"Hey, it's 921ninja from Philosophy"
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