Hey guys,

I went thru some recent down time in my game. What you would call a dry period. I broke up with a girl on my own terms to seek a girl that I would think would be more suited to me. But when I bounced back in the game I didn't get the results I was expecting. Not getting the results made me a bit out of tune with my game. I forgot what made me good. But I think I'm bouncing back into be that up and up positive result oriented path.

I want to distill it into one sentence and share it to see what comments you have or hopefully if you simply agree with the statement.

First off, this statement is coming from the top of my head. Perhaps this is the statement right here. The statement should come from the top of your head because you have to share with others in order to get back. Share whatever it is on your mind. Simply by sharing whats on your mind and being different and engaging a girl will give you way more than what you should get. Anyway, I want to clearify things so let me first talk about my experience to go back into that up and up path.

What I did was I made a script for okcupid and mass texted girls until I got a correct response. I know this is basically cheating and I am probably bias'd with being able to get results because I'm cheating the game. But, I take it all as experience.

So, I finally messaged enough girls till where I finally FINALLY got a good converstaion going. The text started off with a really nice funny joke. I assumed the girl was crazily into me which made my text responses be literally WHATEVER I wanted.

And this was where I bounced back. When I started to be myself. When I didn't hold back what was on my mind whatsoever. If I was scared of the girl, I would tell her I'm scared BUT I would do it in a funny relaxed way (which is key). I basically view the state that I'm in to be in one of four areas. Either: I'm reclusive and serious, I'm reclusive and not serious (aka funny), I'm engaging and serious, or I'm engaging and not serious (aka funny).

Three of the four types of states that I'm in will give me guarnteed negative results with girls. It's sometimes tough to catch because this stuff is subconcious. I can be telling myself I'm not funny and engaging but I'm actually being reclusive and serious.

Deep down though you need to become okay with who you are so you can always have a deep rooted sense of being funny and engaging. This is a bit more complex and I don't really want to explain how I got this because this post is getting way longer than I anticipated. Alright so lets wrap this up in a few sentences:

To be good with girls just get infront of them enough to share exactly whats on your mind in a funny way. This scientifically makes sense because a girl is looking out for her own self preservation so she needs someone who she can easily read and feels safe around.

That's it. That's all you need. Go infront of a girl and say whats on your mind. If you're being rejected and your nervous TELL HER YOU ARE THOSE THINGS BUT BE FUNNY ABOUT IT AND NON SERIOUS.

Alright, that's it guys hope it helps. Peace. I'm in work so I apologize about not re-reading this post and polishing it.