Whatsup guys,

After posting here and just getting back a great positive mentality going, I had a frustrating failure this weekend.

So last night I'm in my hostel getting ready to go to the club, and in walks one of the maids. Really cute 19 year old girl from Spain. I've been in a great mood socializing all weekend, including some approaches+physical stuff (no pull sadly) on a couple 10's earlier that day where a ton of guys were watching.

After telling her we have new dormmates for her to prepare for, I start convo: omg they made you work on Sat. night?/sarcastic jokes/where are you from?/so you found your dream job?/make little character remakrs. I know about Spanish culture so I poke fun at her and make her qualify herself. Talk about her hometown then she's throwing IOI's like crazy, asking all kinds of questions, locking eyes, playfully smacks me for my jokes. She's also planted and content talking to me, not edging to leave. Says she's not doing anything after her shift and is just staying in tonight, in her dorm with 4 other women she doesnt really like. I'm legit into this girl by this point and she's into me.

I had a couple things to do before the club so I cut it short by asking if she wants to go downtown with me tomorrow wth some friends. She punches her number in my phone, we locked finger high five, I tell her she's the cutest and coolest maid ever, say goodbye. Some of you might be screaming at your monitor right now, lol. I'll get to that...

Let me just give you the punchline which is pretty sad on my part, it wasn't till the next day when I went to text her that I realize she gave me a bad number. Her number should be 10 digits and its 9 digits. So 2 texts go to nowhere. Even asked some staff about her. They don't know her, probably since she's been there for 3 days.

I then wracked my brain on whether this girl really gave me a fake number on purpose, even after hitting it off with me, or if it was really an accident. She was having trouble with my phone but the lack of physical contact and my semi-abrupt number pull make me think she faked it.

So what I learned here:

1) Escalate. While i got IOIs, I didn't capitalize on them and kept things too friendly

2) CLOSE. The reason some of you are probably screaming and facepalming is because the girl came to my damn room and I just number pulled. Logistics don't get much easier than that, lol. I also had plenty of time until I had to go to the club. big mistake!

3) Keep gaming: This one I actually had down, because after setting the date and getting the #, I made it a point that I wanted to pull more at the club. But the ratios were pretty shit at the club and honestly only a couple attractive ones with boyfriends which I'm not keen on (niche music so much different club crowd). I tried to keep momentum on my walk back to the hostel but I'm exhausted from a week of partying. I go from having a potentially amazing day tomorrow with a girl I liked to lonely and dateless. I call it a night and crash.

You can't let yourself get down, just KEEP GOING OUT and never rely on your one date or that one number you have. More dates = you're not needy and that you also have more chance of actually pulling. Never allow pitfalls to deter your progress. Shit happens, quite frequently too. I emphasize because this seems to be what kills newbies faster than anything. Just fuckin DEAL and onto the next!