How do you get good REALLY fast?

famineofcrows · 2016-09-27T08:49:00+00:00

I kind of feel as though I don't neccesarily 'learn' or get any better after lots of approaches. I know that people say that's how you get better, but if you never really know what you done good or bad since there's just an infinite number of variables, it can be difficult!

Did you have a good interaction with that girl because you made stong eye contact in the beginning? Or was it because of that funny line you said just after teh open? Or was it just because you felt very relaxed? Or was it because you done X or Y? Or was it because she happened to think you were physically attractive!!?

That aside, though - I imagine the best way would be to record your attempts and post them here for feedback like I saw another guy do a few times here recently.

And with 'field reports' I think ppl need to be more detailed and really write almost like a little script of exactly how the conversation went

NewZealandSed · 2016-09-27T08:50:35+00:00

Some people have a predisposition from having natural talents before trying learn, such as being articulate, funny, confident, tall, muscular, handsome, courageous. That would speed things up.

I read a book a week for a period of time while I was seeing one girl, then two girls and so on. I was reading several different books at the same time at one point which wasn't the best idea. Find a book that you value, read it, wait a few days, reread it again and so on. Make sure you APPLY what you've learned or there's no point reading at all.

Have multiple avenues for meeting women. Such as going out a lot, with or without the intention of approaching, tinder, social events.

Getting high quality women is fun and all but to get good really fast you would need to invest a lot of time into it which is probably not for everyone.

omegavil · 2016-09-27T10:21:17+00:00

It doesn't happen really fast, you learn by failure and analyse afterwards mentally what went wrong, was there an opportunity to escalate, did you come off as too much, did you kino, hold eye contact, look at the lips, was there sexual tension, were the IOIs, learn what IOIS are, make noticing them second nature. Read material, listen to material, better yourself, improve your posture, sort your style out, get like minded friends

CHRISTINESAGIRLSNAME · 2016-09-27T17:32:45+00:00

The obvious answer is hang out with friends who get laid a lot. If there are lots of girls around and you are happy and fun and attractive you will do great.

msmiitz · 2016-09-27T14:51:26+00:00

i just try to masturbate furiously. that seems to help

Title	How do you get good REALLY fast?
Author	BigBootyBear
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Date	September 27, 2016 8:25 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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