Hey, I've been following this for a while, and am still learning the red pill ways, but I have a question regarding the best path to take.

I've been blue pill my entire life, and these last few years I've worked on changing that. I've changed by working out daily, starting my own business, writing more, playing piano, and just generally discovering and improving myself.

The issue is that I can't have sex without emotional attachment. I'm only looking for a long term relationship, not a quick fix. Now, even though I'm busy, I still want to fuck. There are available women, but I feel as if I may get attached. I generally avoid going out to bars (Expensive, and takes time away from working with clients) , or accepting offers to 'drink and watch movies at my place' by women who I know get around. I'm not looking to screw one slutty women for a night, but rather a great loyal girl for years

I truly want to work hard, make money, and date a good woman who I can fuck every single goddamn day, but I'm not there yet. In one year I'll have enough revenue to actually be social, but right now I don't have the funds, and my business needs me to survive. The red pill stance on masturbation is that it's preferable to to have a woman, rather than watch porn. I agree, but mentally that's not what I want, and I'm not going to settle for just dating the nearest available girl.

So for those experienced in red pill, what would you suggest, and what has helped you? I figure moderation in masturbation, but getting there is the tricky part.