Shit test: "Nooo I have to stay here with my friend!"?

[deleted] · 2014-08-23T20:08:57+00:00

Instead of pushing her away you should've said fuck it and then kissed her right there.

thefamiliarsound · 2014-08-23T19:29:36+00:00

Why did you have to walk somewhere else to kiss her? There's a chance she actually didn't want to get separated from her friend, not everything is a shit test.

xwm · 2014-08-23T19:42:35+00:00

What /u/thefamiliarsound said

Also;

so I just said fuck it and pushed her away

Even if you fucked up, this is akin to throwing a tantrum. Outcome independence is the name of the game. You showed her here that you clearly care. Either give her a reason to follow you or just tell her you need to step outside (or something) for a moment. She would have probably followed you.

tymet · 2014-08-24T05:46:06+00:00

Doesn't sound like a shit test. She was right, she does have to stay there with her friend. They're not like us, they can't just ditch their friends to go hook up with somebody. Our friends wouldn't give a shit if we disappeared, but hers will.

You handled it very poorly with your tantrum at the end. You should have just said, "you're so lame," and then distracted her by changing the subject

Title	Shit test: "Nooo I have to stay here with my friend!"?
Author	seeing-red-
Upvotes	0
Comments	6
Date	August 23, 2014 7:16 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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