Should I stop deliberately hunting for women?

IWriteForGroupies · 2016-11-24T20:07:32+00:00

I recommend taking some lessons on basic communication and learning public speaking. A lot of people want to learn activities without actually studying. If I wanted to be a sniper, I would not just go buy a gun and shoot targets at a distance. I would learn how to work the gun. I may even start with close targets.

2016-11-25T00:57:36+00:00

First, this isn't tumblr, you don't have to apologize for wanting a girlfriend.

Having said that, even though the end goal is dating, I'd stop focusing on women and start just talking to everyone.

From "weak social skills" to pickup is a big jump. Just take the first step, fix the weak social skills. Talk to everyone you meet. Be as interesting as you can manage to everyone you meet. Find ways to talk to many people (old, young, ugly, pretty, men, women). You'll get a lot more practice if you talk to everyone. Every conversation is an opportunity to practice, and a chance to learn.

Also, as a side benefit, when you do find an interesting woman, you will have some friends already to show you are a worthwhile guy.

Title	Should I stop deliberately hunting for women?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	2
Comments	12
Date	November 24, 2016 7:58 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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