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heavy flirting followed by her inviting me over to watch netflix but ended up being very bland.

count-duckula-69

December 7, 2016

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Title	heavy flirting followed by her inviting me over to watch netflix but ended up being very bland.
Author	count-duckula-69
Upvotes	2
Comments	2
Date	December 7, 2016 1:32 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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[–][deleted] 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]count-duckula-69[S] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Man you say it how it is. As soon as I left hers, everything you said went through my head. I knew I'd fucked up big time, I guess I just needed to hear it from someone else. Trust me when I say I know she isn't going to text me. I am sure as heck not going to be one of those beta guys whom gets overzealous and can't stop texting to try and save it.

I did a bit of digging, and you're welcome to bash me over this one because she recently (literally 2 weeks ago) got out of a 2 year relationship. So she was clearly looking for the rebound... I fucked up and missed the opportunity big time. Despite the flirting on text ending like, me: "if you carry one, you're going to turn me blue and I wont get any work done", her: "well you're more than welcome to come over, I can put netflix on". I clearly didn't have the balls to make that move early on. Unless of ocurse the flirting was just her baiting me, I don't know:/ Then again, I have been in this situations before and most of the time the girls gives me some kind of non-verbal que/hint and then I move in. But thats still beta af I guess. lesson learned

I actually used the "come here" tactic but as you said, it was waaay too late for that. I was thinking of texting her but I do not think she'll be interested. Everyone is going home for xmas this weekend so maybe I could try again after xmas.

Thanks for the real advice man. I feel like I need a bro friend like you in real life