I have been reading a lot of peoples post asking how to turn a hookup into something more or how to find love or just plain hookup. The answer is going to be the same every single time. Love yourself if you are happy with yourself you will not go out seeking it from others. When you love yourself you are confidante and people around you can feel your energy and know you have something to offer. I understand that having someone in your life might make you feel better about yourself but it is a temporary fix if you do not love yourself you second guess why someone is with you and push them away. By loving yourself and seeing worth in yourself you give yourself the ability to be the best you that you can be. This is what every PUA talks about for the most part being confidant being the best you that you can be.

Here is a little story that happened last night. I went to Disc Reply because I was picking up Dogma by Kevin Smith anyways I was telling the people behind the counter about how I never read a Harry Potter book or seen a movie. I told them this year I was in Universal Studios on a business trip and went to Harry Potter world and almost got into a fight because someone called me a mughal. I did not know what this meant and took immediate offense because people around us were gasping about what this guy said. I informed the gentleman that I was a Veteran not a mughal and that his body weight and hygiene prevented him from talking to me any further. He told me I was being an asshole and I said no this is me being nice right now because I feel bad for you and proceed to try and help him with his life while we waited for some ride. This story does three things makes people laugh, makes me look like a nice person which i am for the most part, and show that I care about others. I have the whole store captivated all eyes are on me. I look over and there is a solid 8 next to me smiling I give the head nod and turn around. 2 minuets later she walked up and started talking to me got the number setup a date all in the matter of 3 minutes. Her little brother did not look to happy but hey I am awesome he will have to get over that. I say this to make a point I was not out picking up women I did not even really know she was there actually until I saw her in all her splendor. I was me and the best me I can be because I love who I am and accept it.

Negs and game is awesome it can really help and make things easier but the guys who are running next level game know who they are and rock that shit. Be the best you that you can be. I want to close this with I am not the best looking guy I am average but you want to know why I am attractive because I know I am I feel like people are better off knowing me. i know this sounds cocky but when you have high value of yourself people can sense it they want to be around you because you have figured something out they probably have not. Master this one thing and you will be the one people want to be around. Best of luck to everyone in their journey.