While there's a lot of advice on how to seduce a girl you're meeting for the first time when she's out with her (male and/or female) friend(s), I feel that there's more to this topic once you have been on one or more dates with her. At this point, depending on how long you've dated the girl and what the level of attraction she feels for you is, the friends lose their so called "cock-blocking" superpowers to a degree. On the other hand, since the relationship is somewhat new, the dynamic between her and her friends is unclear.

At this point, how you treat her friends might have to change; and I think, more importantly, how you treat her in front of her friends has to be considered as well.

Here is a summary of what I think might be good strategies. It's not a guide but a dump of thoughts and ideas that might possibly be wrong, but will hopefully lead to a discussion and eventually some consensus on what is the best strategy:

Male friends: Any reasonably attractive girl will have suitors even when she is taken. Some of them will be her "friends". My feeling is that you basically treat all her male friends the way you would treat them if you had just met her and were trying to seduce her. i.e.:

  • disarm them by being friendly and inclusive (this to me is the definition of the modern alpha male; trying to put them down isn't cool)
  • avoid overt kino with the girl; this makes you appear needy; I've noticed countless times how female friends' boyfriends keep touching her when around me, and the girls themselves don't reciprocate. Clearly, both me and the girl find neediness in what the boyfriend does, and it doesn't work in his favor.

Female friends:

  • I don't have a very good idea of how I should be treating the female friends. Maybe I will want to politely flirt with them? If so, how flirty should I be and how much should this depend on how hot the friend is? This is still unclear to me.
  • On the other hand, as to how I treat my girl before her female friends seems a little more clear: Kino her; the hotter the friend is, the more I am going to kino my girl in front of her. Why? Because it makes her feel good. Girls love making each other jealous no matter how close they are as friends, and clearly, my girl is going to get to make her friend feel jealous. It is my gift to her. Of course, there's a limit to this, and it must be calibrated based on how my girl responds. I would aim for a level where she is comfortable reciprocating, but occasionally go a little over just so the friend knows I'm really into my girl.

Thoughts?