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[–]MindsEvolve 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If occasional shitty parties and store customers are your only two options..the question is wrong :o I mean you can certainly build attraction in a store interaction, but you don't have enough time to build comfort when you're stuck behind the register. You'd have to quickly ask for every pretty girl's number..which you can do, as long as you're not too worried about the job. But I wouldn't put too much faith in that strategy without time for comfort building.
It's time to become a strategy man! You can build a very big pipeline of dates for yourself quickly by getting up to speed with all avenues of dating. Get a good profile on every dating app, explore meetups if you're particular about your women, or cold approach into the general population if you like. PM me if you need help coming up with a better strategy. You don't have to rely on shitty parties just because that's what you're used to doing.
[–]ForSciencePornposes 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's not a perfect fit, but I've always heard "don't get your honey where you make your money." Why risk a customer complaining about you coming on to her when there are so many other places to meet people besides work and the shitty weekend parties.
[–]xrispy7 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
First off this "I'm just a cashier" thing is all in your head! You are not just a cashier, you are simply a cashier for the moment. Let her know other things about you, "I like art, do you like art?". Also Look at her clothing if she is wearing a pink floyd shirt just say "Floyd is dope, but my fav band is actually The Weekend". See what she says. If you two start emotionally vibing she will be attracted to you because now you are not just a cashier ;)
Remember this: Attraction is not a choice, it's something that people are simply gravitated towards. So allow her to gravitate towards "just a cashier" artist, musician, scientist, book reader, etc. Write down a list of things you like at home this will help you realize the fun/cool qualities in you.
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