Dear all seddits, feel free to add to this.

The way I have found this is that sometimes you have to be in the right frame of mind. Having a drink (alcoholic of course) and then having the male bravado to speak to a woman who you mayor may not think is out of your league (as you think it) is easier, whereas just having the mentality of YOU being more than good enough to THE MAN that you want to be is total bullshit. YOU ste better than you think, nobody is better than you. Everyone is equal, doesn't matter how much money they make or the social value they seem to hold, you are as good as you feel. The cool crowd are full of bullshit and usually amount to nothing, but the people who tend to hold back are thw ones with much greater potential. Don't forget that, your own self worth is much greater than you think.