The main reason I got into this whole "learning game" thing is not because I didn't know how to talk to girls, but because I was scared that if me and another guy (mostly my friends) are trying to get at the same girl in our social circle I would end up losing. This has always been my biggest fear which has lead me to overthinking what I already have (being social and flirtatious) which ultimately led me to being awkward in many social interactions. I realized that when I let go of game and go back to being my normal self I'm getting girls to like me and even guys approach me asking to hang out etc.

Then the fear that any girl I'm talking to can be taken from me comes back and I get back into "game" and start practicing what I already have.

Any advice on how to fix this?