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You're overthinking this. If neither of you have even spoken to her, there is no "competition".
I want more thoughtful answers
No, you want cheat codes that will magically prevent rejection and abate any anxiety you may feel. Answers like the one you mentioned are grounded in reality without overthinking things.
She's just some girl in a class. Talking to her isn't even a noteworthy event in the scope of life. If she's always with her friends, talk to them as well. Sit by them, introduce yourself, and get to know the group. If she had some reason to borrow something from you, you could have talked to her more then.
You're treating this as some kind of special event when it really isn't. There doesn't need to be a lengthy, thoughtful, unique answer to your question because it isn't a situation that requires much thought. You're just talking to a person.
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