The thought just crossed me: what is actually the difference between creepy and cool. I'm mainly talking about chatting here, as body language and motive often shine through when pitted face to face with someone. But what about chatting?

In this digitalized day and age, picking up women via chat is getting more and more relevant, but I rarely see anyone actually consider this a part of the seduction. I know there are a lot of seasoned Tinder-veterans in here, so I come seeking advice. This question would not only apply to Tinder, as I'm also interested in input regarding platforms where you would have something already established with a girl.

I once saw a gif where a woman states that the only difference between creepy and cool is whether or not you're attracted to him. I'm not entirely sure if I agree on that, but I'd love some input on that as well. Girls match with you on Tinder because they find you attractive in somw way, but my Lord do creepy dudes exist on Tinder as well.

What is considered creepy, and what is charming? Emoji-usage? Questions or suggestions? Acting sweet or harsh? Ask or command? I personally believe that there is an extremely fine line between the two, which is mainly why I'm asking. If any text-masters out there would like to share some wisdom it'd be vert appriciated.