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I have been reading about seduction for years, this video with dance moves is the one that really changed my life

cuntcumia · 2017-04-15T20:39:19+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HHG6YVaLIFQ i was horrible with girls (due to me being ugly), now i am good at night game, thanks to this video. i am not...

cuntcumia

April 15, 2017

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Title	I have been reading about seduction for years, this video with dance moves is the one that really changed my life
Author	cuntcumia
Upvotes	19
Comments	26
Date	April 15, 2017 8:39 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/65lar8/i_have_been_reading_about_seduction_for_years/
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I haven't seen the video, but someone just linked you to generally helpful advice that being fun on the dance floor is good for game.

And your response basically was: I'd rather listen to music that makes it more difficult to game.

Firstly, whether you like it or not is beside the point. There's a reason why popular dance songs are popular. People are most likely to want to dance when the music is a little syncopated and not too fast.

Secondly, there's a reason that stuff like speedcore isn't on the top 10 list of music people listen to while they're getting down to business. Fast music might be what you enjoy listening to or even spazzing out to on the dance floor. But it's not conducive to people dancing close and it's fiercely at odds with the general vibe most people feel as things start to heat up.

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As I've said before, this pickup shit isn't for everyone.

Pickup isn't some special thing. It's just socializing. If you can TALK and INTERACT with people, then you have the core skillset.

There are many steps a dude has to take in order to even try to be a casanova.

Fuck being like Casanova. What the hell are you even talking about?

Anyway, the "steps" are not rocket science.

You pay attention to the environment you're in.
You talk to someone and you listen to them.
You physically escalate, through touch.

It's not magic. It doesn't require bootcamps. It doesn't require reading every book out there or approaching 1000 women.

Nightgame isn't an option for me just out of sheer circumstance. Not to mention ALL the rest.

So you don't talk to people? Are you mute? You're only able to type? Did your facial muscles fail? Are you blind?

I love giving you people explanations because all you see is excuses. It rubs you all the wrong way for some reason too.

How about you stop wasting your time trying to read minds? You're not very good at it.

Not everyone's got a life filled with women to game and friends to make. Not everyone's living a life of opportunity.

Seriously, the amount of utter falsehood you're operating under is astounding. We're talking about walking outside and talking to people. You don't have to live the life of a rapper in a music video. Man, a lot of people would give up if the only measure of success were reaching this very exaggerated and bullshit image you seem to believe it is.

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So even when you meet them that's fine?

I don't assume anything on way or the other. I'm not walking up and "getting sexual" right away. And I'm not acting like a priest the whole time if I'm interested, either.

Though, if we're talking daytime stuff, I usually don't expect anything crazy. Nighttime though, sometimes stuff can escalate quickly at places like bars and clubs. Just because of the different attitudes there.

I'm pretty bad with that stuff

Point is, ANYONE is bad at this if they're in their head instead of paying attention to the woman and everything going on in the world around them.

It's not like I'm walking up and touching people right away. That's creepy. But I do start slowly testing people's reactions to my presence in their space.

Starting with light touches in SAFE places. Like forearm touches. Arm jabs. Completely non sexual touches. Almost accidental touches. Etc.
And simply edging in a little closer to a girl.

Both of these will start to get a reaction from girls. Those reactions tell me how to proceed and if to proceed.

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