Hey Reader!
Before you get started reading, I want to give some background. This so called “algorithm” I developed, was a result of multiple trials and failures. Once I got this to the cent, I just ran with it like a program and had a lot of success. For me, this process worked, and it worked really well, however... remember that improvisation may be necessary in certain scenarios.
Dates ending in a make-out are a given from this, however, this as a whole takes the date to the next stage. It really opens the realm of third and fourth base (which was a realm I had a very tough time escalating to in the past) easily. I rarely had a date where it ended without it going to at least third base after I started following this.
To add to that, my success rate is not based on a mere sample set of 5 or 8 dates, but much more. Success (if all key points are hit perfectly and rapport is built), will be a norm. This algorithm however is not meant to be taken as a holy scripture. If at any point your date feels uncomfortable just stop. There's always time for Date 2's. But most of the time, if you play the cards right, you should be good. I've done this method on multiple girls and it's worked pretty flawlessly. Even to girls who had never even given their first kiss. Building comfort is key and being patient is essential. Results may vary depending on who you are (your personality, energy, “stage” in game, etc.), but this is what worked for me. It is impossible to get all the nuances down to the penny, however I tried my best.
Happy Reading!
Location and Logistics:
When closing a date I would always make sure to go to Froyo. Why? Because it is cheap, light (if
you want to get frisky later), and the places are designed for fun/laid back social interactions. Froyo was my personal preference, and it worked. Something fun and light is always good, it does not have not be specifically Froyo, but you get the gist. Two things can happen: Either she can meet you there...or you can pick her up. If you are pulling her back home or pulling her somewhere else you would not want her to drive. This is because she has a valid reason as to why to leave an interaction after x-number of time (ex. Parking meter running out, she has to get the car back, etc.). Make sure the location is near somewhere you and her can get some privacy. If she does live further away and you would like to meet at a median location, that also is fine, just realize that once you get to Step Two, bring her to your car.
Stage One || Froyo:
I will keep it simple by telling you what I did at stage one of the date. I really made an effort to
get to know her as a human being. Have lots of fun and just be real. In the long run getting to know her and not just plowing a wet hole makes the entire experience so much better. I didn't try to engage in unnecessary kino, and I advise others also at this initial stage not to touch her. Build some vocal rapport and comfort. Gain trust. Too much kino can portray that you are trying to just get in her pants. Even if that's true, you don't want her to know that. A lot of girls will definitely not appreciate that. Remember it is very likely she does not know you very well at all. In the date ask her questions. You can play the all time favorite “questions game”. Try to get a feel of her sexual history by slowly escalating in questions. Be slight. "What's the longest relationship you've been in" is a good way to gauge whether she's done at- least some stuff sexually (if you don’t know). You can even ask "What's the most you've done with a guy?” Be smart. Don’t ask questions which don’t make sense in context, and ask good questions. This will show her who you are, and you will also find out a lot about her. Good starting questions:
What’s your favorite place in the entire world?
If you had all the money in the world, what is the first thing you would buy?
What is your spirit animal?
Step Two || Relocation:
After the initial date I would always relocate. Those of you who study game know why relocation
is important. Multiple positive memories tied in with multiple locations makes the date seem much more exciting, and honestly...it really is. A change of environment never hurt anyone. My go to would be a public park. Somewhere safe, and someplace where it won’t look out of hand if you are really touching
her. It’s important she feels safe and comfortable. On the way to the park is when my flirting and kino begins. I start running my “transitions” with phrases such as “Wow, these pants look very soft...are they silk?” and brushing her leg. Or even doing the old “Palm Reader” trick. For me especially it is just a lot easier this way and way less awkward than suddenly just stroking her. If you have been getting IOI’s, an arm over her is definitely a way to go. If you played the date (Step One) right she should be comfortable and reacting well to your advances.
Step 3 || The Option:
After stage one, I would usually just sit in the parking lot once we reached the park. I would
always try to test the waters here. I would try to get a gauge of her attraction and involvement towards me. I would say "We should just go in the back seat and listen to music. Are you down?” She usually would know what's up by "that" so it's just a safe was to ask her if she wants to start making out without being blatant. This line is great because if she tries to hit you with the “I know what your trying to do!” you can respond playfully with “Oh gosh! Get your mind out of the gutter! I actually just really want to listen to music.” If she is not comfortable or not ready, take her to the park. It’s honestly a win-win. If she’s down to go to the back, skip stage four and move on.
Step 4 || The Park:
Once at the park, do a repetition of stage one however mix it with kino, banter, and flirtation. As
soon as I open the door to the car I make sure to stand near to her, or even hold her hand (put my arm around her), or whatever as we walk towards the destination. If you’ve come this far in the date do not doubt yourself. She obviously is into you. Assume attraction. Once at the park I would push her on the swings, sit on the picnic benches, and again...focus on having fun. I say this a lot but if you truly are not enjoying yourself...just leave!
After all this, I would always do my favorite move. The Head on the Lap. To clarify, I would tell her to sit down criss-cross and rest my head on her lap while looking up at her. It is very indirect kino and honestly really fucking cute. Girls really, really enjoy that. They play with your hair, talk to you, and it makes you seem like a badass. It’s a really strong move which exudes confidence and the words I am comfortable. Honestly if it feels right, you can just go in for the kiss there. Of course, in this setting, having a full blown make out would probably be to much...but a kiss works. If you are seeing IOI’s move to the next step. For the intents and purposes of this I will mention pulling her back to my car. This is because I had no place of my own so my car was where the sex or oral would take place. Honestly feel free to bring her back home at this point, or complete step five like I did in the backseat and finish the rest back home. It really is your call. If you think a 15 min drive back to your place would kill the vibe, then just go ahead and use your car. Please don’t park blatantly, however, I’ve never been caught and I’ve parked in very questionable and public places.
Step Five || Private Place + Escalation:
If you’ve gotten this far into the date and didn’t rush anything...then CONGRATS! She is likely
very into you. If she wasn’t she would of made an excuse to leave and you would know. This is what the entire date is being built to so don’t rush the other stages. I found that out quick. Girls will call you out and say “I know you did that entire process just to get me in the backseat,” if you are hasty. Trust the process and be comfortable. Don’t portray any nervousness. Be confident. Now when I would start walking from the park I would walk a little ahead of her. Then, I would just go ahead and open the back seat door. Ninety nine percent of the time she would just get in. It will be shocking to see the first time, but it does happen. However, if she protests (which she might playfully), just remember “you’re just going back there to listen to music.” The sexual tension is always very high at this point. I play music in the background and hit her with my favorite, favorite line to transition to a kiss when we are in the backseat.
"You know I've never___.” That’s it.
Best line ever to escalate to the kiss. Say it as a statement, not as a question. Even if it is a lie, it works. Just use it.
Example:
"You know I've never kissed a girl on campus before.” "You know I've never kissed an Asian girl before.” "You know I've never kissed a girl in this car before.”
What she will most likely respond with is: “Well, do you want to?”
Then you can start making out.
If she rejects you, you can be a badass and say "I said I never have done it, and I still don't plan on doing it. I was just stating a fact. It was nothing but a statement!” Usually at this point however the girl is going to fucking kiss you. But that's why the line is great. You can save it from being awkward if it does get so. The line works a lot better than just swooping in which requires a lot of balls and accuracy. Guys will always say “Lean in when the time is right,” but what does that fucking mean? You will think in your head: How weird would it be if I just leaned in and she didn’t expect it? Go ahead if you want, but this is the best way to transition especially if you are a beginner and not calibrated. I myself am never just good at assuming she wants to make out and jumping tongue first into the flatworm’s cauldron.
Step Six || Make-out to More:
So great. Now you are making out and thing are great. How do you get your dick wet? Now that’s
the fucking question I always had. How am I going to go from kissing to anything more. Many times a girl won’t just bend down and start sucking or fucking, so you need to command her towards the right path. So this is what you do.
Escalate -> start making out -> remove some of your clothes first -> make her comfortable/don’t push -> try her clothes
This is the best way I learned on how to go from being clothed to having my cock out. I always thought it would be weird as fuck if I just pulled out Ol’ Inchie, so I discovered a technique.
"God this belt/shirt/etc is just so uncomfortable!!!” and just take it off. She'll know what's up. Honestly though, you aren’t lying. It’s fucking tough having your dagger-like cock hard as hell and pressing against the wall of you jeans. Just do variations of the sentence and keep it playful. Don’t make the complaints sound honest. This is because you also know why it’s going off.
Examples:
“I’m going to take this belt off. It’s just so uncomfortable right now.” “Gosh it’s so hot, I neeeed to take this shirt off.”
The game your playing here should be making sense. Again, this is what worked for me every time. It’s safe and it doesn’t imply anything. A lot of girls just like to make the scenario seem like “it just happened,” so this plays into that fantasy.
After your clothes start coming off, try to remove her clothes...it’s only fair. She probably will let you. If she gives resistance. Rinse and repeat. Go back to making out, neck kisses, making her feel great...then try again.
I will be honest, if she doesn’t want to take her clothes off it is fine. Don’t think that that means she won’t do anything sexual with you. I’ve had multiple girls who have not taken off anything, and still gave me head. However, I do prefer seeing something.
Eventually remember this.
Hold is gold.
Be in your boxers. While making out, move her hand over your cock. Some girls will go right inside your boxers, some girls might not. If she doesn’t go right in, just gently nudge it in. Many girls had never even seen a cock before mine so were very hesitant. I either just asked and reassured them that nothing would happen, or just slowly pulled my cock out. While she’s making out with you she’s in that moment. She doesn’t have time to think of what her hand is doing. Once she grabs it, it will be bliss. Keep making out and have her jerk you off. Teach her if she doesn't know what you like. Do NOT and I repeat do NOT go for her pussy unless she asks. She may feel violated. If she doesn't want to, who gives a fuck? Let her have some control. She’s pleasuring you, tell her what you like. You won’t believe how many guys tried grabbing their date’s pussy and it killed the mood. Just play it safe regarding that.
Now to go from there to head, really is nothing magical. You honestly just have to have the balls and just ask her. However, the key is asking her correctly. Don’t ask as a hesitant question, but more of a statement.
"You should definitely go down on me.”
If she says no hesitantly (but she’s still enjoying the mood) just rinse and repeat. I never really had a girl who was extremely against it, so stay optimistic and don’t back down too easily. If she 100% doesn’t want to go down, don’t force or push her. That is what will kill any chance of you getting anything in the future. Also to be honest, getting jerked off and cumming while making out is still amazing. Same thing for sex, always ask for consent. However do it correctly. A lot of guys think that there is some hack like “12 Different Ways You Can Touch Her So She Will Be Begging For Cock,” but the world is not a Buzzfield article. Every girl is different. Communicate.
Lastly, if she does not want to have sex (or even give oral) on the first day meeting you, don’t crucify her...it’s natural. Just know and remember there are always, always date twos.
So there we go! My Six Step Seduction Guide to Going Past Snogging! My final thoughts are this: Be calibrated. Have fun. And improvise. Not everything will go the way you’d like it to so believe in yourself. If it doesn't work out, don’t beat yourself...There are hundreds of hot singles in your area looking to fuck ;)
Thanks! -Signore
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