So I met this girl on tinder.. I had sex with her 4 times in her apartment and then she moved about 50 minutes away to live with her parents. She says shes going to move out in about 2 months to live with her best friend again in the town I met her in. She's told me to be patient with her and yada yada, but I get the sense she's fucking someone else honestly. I have no concrete proof, but I just get the idea.

The reason I say this is because the sex stopped. I met her 2.5 months ago, we had sex for 1.5 months (4 times total), and then stopped. When we were having sex she said she was on that mirena birth control thing that starts off with really long periods and then slowly dissipates until some girls have no period. She told me she had no period and said it cheerfully (this is when we were fucking).

Fast forward a month, no sex at all, i've asked her what the fuck is the problem and she used her period as an excuse.. she said she's been on her period for 2 weeks because of the mirena thing, but earlier she had told me that she didnt have periods. Maybe she got it reinserted? I dont know. Anyway in my car we always kiss goodbye and stuff when she leaves, but last time she was at my place we cuddled for a movie and she wouldnt let me finger her. She would move my hand away. Also, recently whenever we kiss after a certain amount of time (before things got heated) she would stop me and say my beard is tickling her or she can't breathe. A few nights ago we were kissing again and she wasn't saying those things, but when I started using tongue she stopped me and said she doesnt like tongue? We had always used tongue before so I asked her why we did and she said she was only doing it because I liked it. Oh, she also doesnt give blowjobs.. never has, even when we did have sex. She's also never ever let me in her car. I ask her to drive sometimes and she says hell no.. I asked her why and she says her car is a mess and she has clothes scattered everywhere. Another time she said she doesn't like her car and is embarassed by it, but I said I didn't care.

I feel like she has something to hide with her car, and often doesn't know when shes getting off work.

Anyway, I think she's cheating on me or very close to. My ONLY question is why on earth would a girl continue paying for everything and investing everything into hanging out with you if she's cheating on you? This girl literally pays almost every meal, drives to me (unless we go out, then she drives to me and we hop in my car and drive with my car).. so I mean its like I dont even care if shes cheating on me cause i get free food. She does get my time, though.

Any ideas as to what is going on? Maybe i'm wrong about her cheating and she really just wants to wait. I've asked her before and she said every relationship shes had she didn't wait, and she wants to do this one the RIGHT way. I dont even fucking know what that means. I feel like shes trying to lock me as beta provider by withdrawing sex and keeping me around (I told her I was a virgin prior to meeting her, and I lost my virginity to her the same weekend after we met.. 2nd date).

I dont know whats going on I'm so confused.

just fyi, the sex was awful... i usually busted in under 5 minutes after going inside. Other stuff lasted longer though, gave her head once which was an awful idea considering i met her on tinder, but she also said she never met anyone, and I do believe her on this because she brought a friend at the first date... she said because she didnt know me obviously and didnt want to get murdered that night.. I was a virgin so obviously the sex is gonna suck, I dont care.. but is that why she's cheating on me? Because shes a whore and has to have good sex and isn't patient enough to wait until I get good at it? I dont know.

She's also hinted that I have like no muscle, guys who drive trucks are hot (I drive a 2007 honda civic, lol), and has even hinted that i'm gay what the fuck. She asked me the other night after buying my dinner, "have you ever liked a man?" (she could have been teasing, and probably was) and another time in bed she was a total bitch and even called me straight up gay and my car a vagina lol what in the fuck. she's also called my body shit and yeah i have no fuckin idea