How do you get a girl emotionally invested in you through text?

broknn · 2017-05-15T03:06:25+00:00

You don't.

On a serious note, you can have fun with a girl through text and make her attracted to you, but make sure to use this attraction and transition it to a real date SOON.

The longer you are texting a girl about whatever without meeting her in person, the less she will be interested in you. Do you really want to to text a girl endlessly without seeing her? It will get boring, trust me.

So, be playful in your text and do not try to get to know her, once you feel that she is somewhat interested in you, set up a date, don't ask for a date. If she is interested, she'll respond and accept, if not, well she isn't interested so move on.

Good luck!

2017-05-15T03:38:33+00:00

You have to be seriously interested in what she has to say. Yes its possible to make a connection over texting, but the impersonal nature of text can be problematic.

st3roids · 2017-05-15T18:15:43+00:00

You dont .

dudes that speak with girls for hours they just validate - supplicate girls and shoot themself in the leg.

Only use texts for logistics and keep it small like

you : what’s up. drinks fri?

her : blah blah blah

you : sweet

either she accepts or rejects use same answer dont seem fazed or super exited

honeynut_beerios · 2017-05-15T10:13:13+00:00

Honestly. I minimize texting. I'd rather speak in person if possible because in person, You can have a presence, see her reactions to what you say and theres the possibility of touch and such and then so much more on top of that.

I dont know about other people, but for me, it always hits this point where its just stale and I feel like texting can often do more harm than good. I get it. texting can also be fun, but I just prefer being in person than talking to a screen at inconvenient times.

my two cents though.

&& yes. I understand if youre using a dating site, its not so easy, but that was one of the reasons I get tired of dating sites cause at least in my area, its not all that good for me.

Jack__Knife · 2017-05-16T19:15:44+00:00

You don't. You get her 'sexually' invested in you.

Title	How do you get a girl emotionally invested in you through text?
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Date	May 15, 2017 2:10 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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