Would you fuck a girl who's high? Is that considered rape?

[deleted] · 2014-09-29T04:56:18+00:00

While I don't know all the legal ramifications of proclaiming that you were raped while high, I'd say it's best to err on the side of caution, especially if it's a girl you just met and don't know.

Beltox2pointO · 2014-09-29T12:43:06+00:00

While sober, while I don't consider it rape as such. I personally wouldn't do it. But if I'm high as fuck and so is she, and it progresses that way... who wouldn't? Shouldn't be considered rape though.

[deleted] · 2014-09-29T17:53:59+00:00

I have zero advice when it comes to possible legal ramifications but I guess is if the girl is going to claim rape because of Marijuana she was probably going to claim that regardless of whether she was high or not. I smoke a lot of grass, and so do all my friends (male and female) and I have never seen someone effected by it to the point where they couldn't make a consensual decision. It is very different than alcohol in this sense.

In terms of my experience however, having sex while high is one of the greatest things ever and I find that if the girl is high during it, it is much easier for me to give her an orgasm and even multiple orgasms. It truely is a magical plant..

[deleted] · 2014-09-29T05:39:19+00:00

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[deleted] · 2014-09-29T04:44:18+00:00

A dude I know is a third grade teacher and I respect his opinion highly and I'll tell you exactly what he told me in a party situation:

"I'm not into fucking girls that are more fucked up than I am"

I think that makes a pretty clear ~~morale~~ moral* line.

johnnight · 2014-09-29T08:33:19+00:00

Fucking a limp body is rape.

MadKingRyan · 2014-09-29T11:13:19+00:00

depends. like, is she just stoned on indica? or like, a bit giggly with sativa? (pls don't let me be mixed up) or like out of her skull with chronic?

some of the best sex I've had has been while we were high. but if she was like, not lucid, I'd probs think twice before gettin near it

[deleted] · 2014-09-29T07:34:22+00:00

Sure no problem, if I have a clean getaway lol

oldredder · 2014-09-29T08:19:44+00:00

Like alcohol the extreme (becoming more "norm") position is "it's rape if not sober because consent can't be given". In reality people getting high at parties happens a lot & sex in those parties happens too. I'd guess a large majority of sex I've had in life was while high or drunk, same with the girls, and sometimes at parties that's how we met at all.

What I would personally do is try to figure out from every possible signal from a girl before it goes too far, especially how she acts with her friends, if she's the kind of girl who would feel OK giving a false rape accusation or letting her friends talk her into it. If your spidey-sense tingles you go the other way. You can be polite about it & you should make it seem like something else, someone else, or somewhere else needs your attention more. No explanation. Just go.

Only life experience can get you through this one. It's hard. You want to have fun. You don't want to be paranoid. Those cry-wolf bitches are really out there. It's not new that there's cry-wolf bitches out there. This is something women always did. What's new is a culture that increasingly promotes the cry-wolf lies and a legal culture which increasingly doesn't care what absurdity is in the accusation, the man gets fucked.

The only guide I can give you is that the more cruel or dishonest a woman is, the more likely she'll do this or feel no guilt about doing it. That's not a great fucking guide since tons of things women can do can be cruel and/or dishonest but there's a scale... there's degrees of being fucked up. You learn over time.

Title	Would you fuck a girl who's high? Is that considered rape?
Author	shititsthecops
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Date	September 29, 2014 4:39 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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