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[–]Moderatorrecyclablebanthas 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
.... people reply along the lines of "escalate and see what happens." Does that mean if you escalate and she doesn't reject your advances, then she is into you?
.... people reply along the lines of "escalate and see what happens."
Does that mean if you escalate and she doesn't reject your advances, then she is into you?
No. Slightly inaccurate summary.
In every post you're referring to, guys were just sitting back and not even really interacting with a girl, just wondering if she's interested. Passive.
What I and others like me keep saying is, a girl usually only shows whether she's actually interested, when a guy puts himself out there.
The information they really want is there, if only they did some simple things.
Invite her to do something with them.
Ask to exchange contact information.
Suggest doing something or going somewhere that will leave them alone together, like going to his house.
And lastly, when they start slowly making moves. Escalating.
Throughout all of that, she'll be giving you constant feedback that tells you whether to keep going, slow down, stop for a time, or stop for good.
A lot of guys assume that any slow down or stop means total rejection. Not true.
[–]disfixiated 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Pretty much. But I also think if they do reject, it could mean they're simply not ready in which you ease off for a bit to where things were comfortable and then attempt to escalate again after a period of time.
[–]Woujo -3 points-2 points-1 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
https://www.woujo.com/blog/2017/5/16/how-to-escalate
[–]AegonThe1st 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hey man just wanted to say I read that article and the one called "how to have a conversation with a woman" and thought they are great and really helped.
But still wanted to ask you if you could emphasize more in a new article on making the conversation sexual and flirty? Would really appreciate it!
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