Do your Plates ever call fret about the other ones?

square-one · 2014-10-09T02:16:59+00:00

Dread at its finest.

"We are not in a committed relationship, do you think I'm your boyfriend?"

A wordsmith better than I could fix that up a bit but basically you have to lay down the fact that you've never talked about entering a committed relationship and that she needs to speak to you like an adult rather than jumping straight into an accusatory tone.

You don't have to next straight away, that would be a waste. But if she's unwilling to have a discussion about the state of the relationship without "flipping her lid" then it's time to cut her off for a while till she comes crawling back.

Best case scenario you turn the conversation into a fuck session and remind her why she doesn't mind sharing you with other girls.

gimmetrp · 2014-10-09T04:46:06+00:00

You need to familiarlize yourself with Commandment XV:

You are an oak tree. You will not be manipulated by crying, yelling, lying, head games, sexual withdrawal, jealousy ploys, pity plays, shit tests, hot/cold/hot/cold, disappearing acts, or guilt trips. She will rain and thunder all around you and you will shelter her until her storm passes. She will not drag you into her chaos or uproot you. When you have mastery over yourself, you will have mastery over her.

gimmetrp · 2014-10-09T03:03:32+00:00

Nexting isn't the only option for a new plate who has an issue with you hooking up with other women however given a full acceptance of the abundance mentality it is easier to simply find a woman who is okay with being a plate.

I'd say your best course of action is to lay down the law. Tell her you have no interest in a relationship and if she doesn't like it she can find someone else. You'll have to word that to fit your frame however attempting to engage or reason with her will only result in her attempting to manipulate you into a relationship. It also potentially sounds like she is shit testing you and seeing if you'll succumb to her wants, again simply lay down the law and she'll likely come back to you.

My biggest piece of advice if you don't next her is to stay alert, she sounds like a potentially manipulative person and slightly unstable; demanding other plates information to likely threaten them to back off is not someone I would personally want to be engaged with. Treat her like the plate she is and nothing more

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Title	Do your Plates ever call fret about the other ones?
Author	gimmetrp
Upvotes	5
Comments	8
Date	October 9, 2014 2:06 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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