Say there’s a girl that you have a connection with but she lives far away. That being said, you’re going to visit her area quite often.

Should you begin talking to her before you visit, maybe like a week beforehand? Or just do it in person?

I feel like talking beforehand might come across as needy which is my main worry.

And then comes the next problem, keeping the interest alive? Continue talking over phone, or just leave it to when you’re there?