This sounds so f##king unreal. I m not a pick up artist but i have studied buddhism for fairly long time.

Non Reactivity The very principle of buddhism is non reaction. that is non reaction to the external factors . dont let external factors disturb your inner peace. you dont react to an external stimuli whether it is pleasurable or unpleasurable. you maintain your inner peace. whether you make out with a girl 10 minutes after approaching or get middle finger from a bitch- you dont lose your inner peace. at the end of it neither you are excited for the make out you had nor you are depressed for the middle finger you got. your state of mind is same. and trust me it's damn tough to achieve this just by someone's advice, watching video or reading book. buddhism is all about practice. Reading lot of literature wont help. i have seen people reading tons of buddhist literature and crying after being downvoted on reddit. whats the f##king point???? you need to practice man. u can do it yourself at home with the help of literature or videos. or you can get a guru who can guide you . not a money crazy pua but a real meditation guru. those who can't find anyone may join a free of cost meditation program oraganized by some buddhist organisation. Its a 10 day mediation boot camp being organised all around the world(25 centres in north america). i am sharing the link https://www.dhamma.org/en/locations/directory#019

People may read an excellent book by master suzuki- zen mind beginners mind http://www.shambhala.com/zen-mind-beginner-s-mind.html

A very famous quote in this book by master suzuki ( which will even help you in pick up) If your mind is empty, it is always ready for anything; it is open to everything. In the beginner's mind there are many possibilities; in the expert's mind there are few.

PS- I may discuss other principles of buddhism later .