Hey r/AskTRP, just need a little advice here. Here's the Situation:

I've been in a LTR with this girl for about 2 months now, everything has been going well, she's fairly RP. When I met her, she was a virgin (not anymore), and fairly religious. At first I escalated and after a while was getting HJ's and BJ's and dry humping, eventually this went into full-blown sex after some initial resistance to the idea due to her religious nature. Her and I have been having sex regularly for the period we've been dating, but not too long ago she goes on a trip and starts expressing how during church she has been feeling really guilty about having sex and says the only way for her to feel better is by not doing it (we had a pregnancy scare a while ago, I think this may be the true issue). She's been gone on this trip for about 3 weeks now, and every attempt I make to talk dirty to her she shuts down.

The conversations will usually go something as follows:

Me: blah blah blah I want you.. I'll throw you down and have my way (something to this effect)

Her: Babe...

Me: You know you want me

Her: Babe.. I'm just not in the mood..

Me: I'll put you in the mood.

Her: Babe.. I'm serious..

This has happened several times, this "not in the mood" is the first time those words have been said, usually she will just deflect the conversation away from my advances. When I see her again (soon) I will escalate and try to get her to give in but I just wanted a little help with this shit test. The "I'm serious" is what always gets me, because my go to way to deal with shit tests is to deflect/ignore what they say, it's pretty hard to deal with IMO.