Hey guys wanted to give back something to the community so I made this post.

My Story with game I discovered game when I was around 19-20 probably, but took action after I became 22. I had found amazing wings and people who are passionate about it, which made me skyrocket into learning a lot faster and success with women. I've been doing game for about 6 months now. I am far from perfect but have slept with a good amount with very attractive women.

Knowing where you are at First thing is first, know where you are at. What stopped me from losing my virginity initially was the fact that I wasn't even accepting it. I thought I was at advanced level of pick up. I was doing good but I wasn't pulling. At some point I snapped had a dip in my game, then accepted that I was a virgin and had my first pull after a month in the game. If you can't approach deal with that. If you can't escalate deal with that. Don't be afraid to be real with yourself, when you are real with yourself you can real with the girl. Girls appreciate HONESTY.

Know the difference between man and woman This is key. You've probably heard this a 100 times but women go by the emotion, whereas men tend to be more logical. A lot of guys I have met are way too logical man. What made me have success at an early attracting girls was I believe the fact that I am in the creative field and I am already in touch with emotions. So this is key a lot of pua's I've seen have done creative endeavors in their lives, I suggest if you are very analytical or have a job like that, do some drawing, creative writing, stand up comedy.

Rejection To be honest I will say this. Girls are not that bad in terms of rejecting you. The worst they can say is no. Learn to appreciate rejection because it will help you grow. This might be just my opinion but the hotter the girl is the nicer she usually is, I swear fatties tend to be the bitchiest.

Looks They do matter but not as much as you think they do. Guys get a good haircut, clothing style, this will literally make you 10 times more attractive. Also workout for being healthy not for the girls. I used to game in the midwest, all the frat dudes would dress up the same bland way and girls would respect me even more for my funky colored shirt. However know that I've seen very attractive dudes with bad game that don't get the results they want because their game is not on point. I've also noticed that the hotter the girl is the more she pays attention to your actual game and what emotions you bring her.

Don't be needy This is probably my biggest downfall. Longterm I get attached to girls, sometimes when I am about to pull them too. Girls are physic they can see you what you are feeling they want a guy who is on his path and just has them for the ride. That is why no canned line/text will never solve your problem. You need to look deep within. Have good positive mindsets of being good enough by yourself. Also just know that it will take time. Your ego will want to revert to your old self. If you recently lost your virginity like me you will still struggle with self image. It's like your mind always has flashbacks to the moments in time when you were a chode. But it will be OK, trust the process.

Have fun and self amuse This is what I think game is truly about. Bring something to the table and people will love you for it. The nights where I feel the best tend to be the nights where I did this to my maximum, didn't pull but brought so much positivity and energy even into people who were feeling like shirt and trying to take me down.

It's not about the end result but the journey When you continue getting more and more girls you will realize that it's not about the particular girl, but about what's in you. I am still at the point where I am not coming from 100% abundance, not fully able to express myself emotionally, but that's ok the girl will still like you.

If you guys want to learn more about my journey you can check out my youtube channel SpiritualPickup: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCRqy5tSznVSyIWDs34ZDTBw Me an my friend started this to link up spirituality and pick up, but also to talk about our downfalls.