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Telling women "don't be scared". For those of you who approach regularly, what do you think?

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August 6, 2017

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Title	Telling women "don't be scared". For those of you who approach regularly, what do you think?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	0
Comments	16
Date	August 6, 2017 10:41 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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You're just not getting it at all. Most girls completely regret not engaging some of the guys they meet. They talk about in blogs, on missed connections sections of websites...in magazines.. etc. Alot of these girls are the same girls who end up being single and want a relationship and don't know where to find guys... its just that they get scared to talk to guys in public settings whom they don't know.. alot of girls are simply inexperienced when it comes to talking to people whom they don't know... especially in a city like Chicago.

Its fear. And you really look too far into it. This is a fraction of girls ive approached in my life. Its a fraction I wish to change by learning how to get past the subconscious defenses but that's just how i am.

If your perspective is its creepy.. you are probably someone who would fit in that category of women.

Its no different than telling someone dont be scared when trying a new food for example. Youre simply telling them don't be scared to talk to me. I haven't said it myself.. but that's why i was asking others who may have..

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Wow, you are still not understanding at all. "trying a hello or with a compliment".. Girl are you nuts? I am literally talking about the girls who keep walking when you say hello or a compliment, or something nice to try to engage them. and then you say.. "some girls you cant change".. Of course captain obvious.. But a lot of girls you can! That's the whole point of me making my post.. I've gotten so many girls to talk to me who originally would keep walking or say "sorry" or simply act like they hadn't heard me and kept walking.. and after going on a date with them, nearly all of them would talk about how they would brush off guys and regret not talking to them.. simply because they didn't know what to do or say at that moment.. and were so glad I didn't just accept failure because their subconscious guards popped up.

I've had a single mother tell me she was single for 5 years because she found it hard to meet men because they would go cold when she mentioned she had 2 kids. Guys would approach her all the time and her natural defense would kick in and she would be upset later that day.. not at herself but at the guy for not having the balls to get past her not knowing what to do in that instance.

This is literally the last time I am explaining myself. If you don't get it by then, It will not surprise me considering you used "you're" in place of "your" when you said "I don't understand you're thinking". Don't take it as an insult but you're kinda getting annoying at this point.