Based on my last post, if you do everything right, you would think that it would be pretty easy to bring a girl to your bed and sleep with her. In many cases that may be true. The girl would be willing to come up to your bedroom, hook up with you. She could have all the intention in the world to hook up with you! BUT!!! Here’s where it gets tricky. You know the feeling of approach anxiety? Well girls don’t really have that (because they don’t usually approach) instead, they have the same feeling when they’re about to get F*cked. This is why she stops you when things go too far. The worst mistake you can make is to keep pushing forward. Then it becomes a situation where her only focus is to stop you from sleeping with her. If you insist on sleeping with her on the first date (which I don’t recommend) try doing a “freeze out”.

A freeze out is your reaction after she stops you from making advances on her. Instead of getting angry, pouty, sad, annoyed, etc. Simply stop hooking up with her, turn on the T.V and keep it casual. Don’t be upset AT ALL. Simply act turned off, like you’re not interested anymore. After five minutes do that again. If she stops you a second time, stop again for 10 minutes. The longer the freeze out the better (between 5-25 minutes). This is always worked for me, and is a lot better than begging for it.

The reason I wait for the second date is very simple. Girls will resist sleeping with you when they not comfortable enough. This is because they don’t want to feel like a slut. The only thing you need to do is build comfort (comfort is built with time spent together). Personally I don’t like any resistance, and usually during the second date I won’t get any!

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