Out of long term relationship. Doubting myself talking to woman.

losing_it_2017 · 2017-08-24T08:14:51+00:00

Is there anything that can help me cope with the change?

Gestalt Therapy
Daily Meditation for 30 min to 1 hour
Exercise

Is there anything that I may have missed to help me feel confident and possibly more attractive?

Well yeah you've probably missed a lot of things. I don't know what they are though. Your post seems to be focusing on how uncertain about women you are.

Do you think I have a chance?

Do you?

Is there any good advice you could give me?

Two rules to remind yourself regularly: (Credit to David X)

Don't think about what anyone else (especially a girl) is thinking about
You're the most important person in any relationship

And write down the specific answer to "What do you want?" (Casual sex/relationship/dates/threesome etc) ... then GO AFTER IT. Keeping in mind the first two rules while you go after what you want.

Are there any secrets, like how to get a girl in the mood or wanting to?

Yes.

What is acceptable?

Whatever majority of girls do to you, you can do to them.

How do woman commonly let you know they are interested?

Who cares! Refer to rule 1 above. Go after what you want and express what you want to women. E.g "I want to take you out for a drink", If they are not interested they'll let you know.

What do woman look for mostly?

Men with balls and a hint of charm/smoothness. (This is super easy for us guys. Girls have to put on makeup and get good bodies for us guys, but all we have to do is put ourselves in scary situations like talking to them honestly, or going in for a kiss, and that can be really attractive to women, even if we are a bit fat or have some pimples)

How do I get around to suggesting/getting it suggested?

I don't understand this question.

I'm living with my parents a while travel away from where we intend to go, I should probably be able to go to a friends house, but how would I go about doing that?

Work it out. I'm not a taxi driver.

Is there any way of doing it without commitment that wouldn't damage my morals?

I'm lost.

TuaMorte · 2017-08-24T09:43:32+00:00

Hey OP, no advice here. I'm in almost the exact same situation as you, so you're not alone. I just hope one of the other 3 billion plus women in the world can make me as happy as she did.

Title	Out of long term relationship. Doubting myself talking to woman.
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Date	August 24, 2017 3:05 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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