Girl is "guilty" that we did it, how to deal with this?

2017-08-28T05:40:42+00:00

What do you say to make her feel

Do you see a problem here? You can't make her feel any other way. You can try, you can try to influence ... but you can't control her emotions, and neither can she. Just let her feel guilty, it will pass. What you can do is deal with your emotions. Do you perhaps feel unpleasant or helpless that she is feeling guilty? Does that unpleasant feeling drive you to changing her emotions even though you can't? Examine yourself before examining others.

recyclablebanthas · 2017-08-28T09:59:35+00:00

What do you say to make her feel the other way.

/u/brianbria already covered this. You ultimately have no control over what SHE feels because she is the one who assigns values to her experiences, not you.

Yes, shes guilty that we did it.

How did she communicate that she is "guilty?" What exactly did she say?

I think shes guilty since we are not exclusive yet.

Why do you think she is guilty for this reason?

Part of the problem here is that you are filling in the blanks when SHE is the one who has the answers, really. And then you're coming to us, which is fine since it indicates you want to solve this, but again, WE aren't her.

Also, what do you really want here? Do you want something serious or something casual with her? Because that affects what we would recommend for you.

recyclablebanthas · 2017-08-28T12:57:06+00:00

This post had to be removed because it deals with a specific situation/girl..... as such it belongs in /r/askseddit.....

(I'll still continue to respond in our exchange on this thread, though.)

Title	Girl is "guilty" that we did it, how to deal with this?
Author	savethemurlocs
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	August 28, 2017 5:06 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6whbnj/girl_is_guilty_that_we_did_it_how_to_deal_with/
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