A bit of important backstory: I've met this girl in a church youth camp a couple of months ago and I've been gaming her ever since. A month or so ago, we became exclusive and we got to see each other almost every Friday (youth group meeting). Her parents are very protective (what you expect from middle-eastern Christians) so they probably will not let us go out alone. My parents are also very strict when it comes to dates so they won't let me go on a date with her either (that doesn't mean they have to know). Note: I'm 16 and she's 15 years old (we haven't made out yet and kissing at the youth group would be insane since both of us will get in a lot of shit). Anyway, so this is how my attempt at setting up a date over text last night went:
Me: We should go out tomorrow
Her: I am kind of busy tomorrow :$
Her: Sowwy :$
Me: Oh well cancel whatever it is you're doing tom
Her: What's so special about tomorrow? :')
Me: Oh haven't you heard? You and I will be going out tomorrow!
Her: And where are we going? :')
Me: Movie
Her: What movie?
Me: John Wick
Her: omgg that looks like such a cool movie :')
Me: That's why we're going to watch it tomorrow
Her: I have church tomorrow and at night I have a Halloween dance
Her And my parents would never let me go to the movies w/u by our selves :')
Me: You think mine will either?
Me: I'm going to "my friend's house" tomorrow
Her: Well it's easier cuz ur a guy... :')
Her: So ur gonna lie? :')
Me: Me lie? NEVER
Her: Oh well I can never lie especially to my parents :')
Me: You don't have to. "Hey mom/dad. Im gonna go watch a movie with a friend tomorrow"
Her: "Who's your friend?"
Me: insert bullshit name here
Her: Can't
Me: Can't or won't?
Her: Well maybe we can when u get more ppl to go w/ u
Me: Then it wouldn't be a date now, would it?
Her: Bcz i just got from the Halloween party and i have the dance tomorrow that's enough fun for a weekend :')
Her: Oh ur asking me out?
Me: "We should go out tomorrow" - myName 10:37 pm
Her: Well u can't ask someone out over text really...
Her: But like... idkk :') is that weird?
Me: Yeah it's totally weird
Her: Well... i am a weird person so.... :') works perfectly :')
Me: Alright so movies tomorrow at 3:30?
Her: No sowwy :$
Her: Some other time tho... :)
(I still haven't responded to her last message)
As you can see, there is a lot of bullshit going on with her texts. She shows attraction to me when we meet on Fridays and gets a bit jealous when I'm hanging around my other plate (who also shows a shit ton of attraction towards me); however, my "gf" is quite more attractive than plat #2 so I'd still like to set up a date with her so I can finally escalate.
Could I have done/said anything better in order to confirm that date?
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