Opening/Closing Tips? (in need of a little bit of everything)

DadOnDabs · 2017-09-09T16:23:57+00:00

Actions speak louder than words. Don't say shit just go for it.

As far as when they are looking at you just assume the sale. I work in sales and the first thing I DO is assume a sale. "Have you picked out the one you're taking home with you yet?" You could honestly use the same line if you were with friends and a girl was giving you eyes.

Or just call her out. "I saw you staring at me. I was wondering when you were going to introduce yourself."

magezudo · 2017-09-09T16:45:38+00:00

Hello bro. So you need a guide start to finish. It's not easy to show all the nuances on a single post, but in simple terms about how the night goes:

Approach (yeah, sucks, I know). You can have success without cold approach if you have a decent social circle, so you can make "warm approaches".
Hook a few sets/girls/groups. Always exchange contact information (phone number; Snapchat; Instagram; Facebook; other). Get logistics of those girls/groups. By now you probably kissed one or more girls (or not, does not matter that much).
After 1/2 of the night, attach yourself to the girl/group with best logistics (generally). Keep yourself close to your girl till the end or until she is tired of partying.
When she wants to leave or you feel like it's time to go, offer her a ride (if you have a car), maybe go out for food, or "afterparty" at your house. Sometimes you need to deal with her friends, ditch them (in a nice way of course) or invite them.
When you are at her place or she is at your place you start to escalate physically until you have sex.

• If it's the end of the night and you don't have a hooked girl/set you can send messages or call all the numbers/contacts you got during the night. Or you can go beastmode and approach until one good set hooks(I don't recommend).

• During all this processes you will have to deal with her friends. Her logical excuses to not go with you... and other random stuff.

• Your "sex location" should be cool and in hand. Next to the club is ideal. You should have booze and music. If you have your logistics fucked up like me, you should have a car. Or try to go to her home.

This is the "Hard way" to get girls. How pickup usually goes about it. It works. Really. I lost my virginity using this method, with a gorgeous girl! And I still use this. But...

I live in a small city, and in places like where I live your learn to use other methods to get girls:

Social circle: Build your social circle and keep expanding it. Girls will open more easily when they "already know" you. Building a social circle is not easy, and envolves a lot o work: Going out all the time, making new friends, building your social media, inviting people to do stuff.

I would recommend doing both.

Ps. Don't forget about social media! Amazing way to get girls.

Good luck !

GET_IN_THE_VAN · 2017-09-09T19:42:15+00:00

Are you in college? <-this matters

Title	Opening/Closing Tips? (in need of a little bit of everything)
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Date	September 9, 2017 11:56 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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