I feel like I'm approached by a lot of them. I don't know if they were ever interested in me but they give me eye contact, smile, approach, and start conversations. One of them had a boyfriend, and acted like she wanted a sideguy. She strung me along, took me for granted because I asked her study with me a couple times and became more and more nonchalant a about my presence. I was cautious because she threw so many mixed signals, but I should've been more assertive.

Nothing happened the last time we went, I left earlier because it didn't go anywhere. Pretty sure she met up with my friend who was at school after I left. She kept trying to convince me to go get something to eat but wouldn't eat anything herself. So I drank my protein shake then and there and kept studying. She was so pissed asking me if I'm staying/starving because of her, I told her I could ask the same about her and she got unreasonably pissed off at me. Saying it was never about me. I figured out what was going on then recently after some reflection.

I was angry at myself for letting this happen. I see it coming a mile away now but, I just end up being mean to new manipulators. Its not because I am negging, or using a seduction strategy, but because I am angry, cynical and just found a new woman (verbal punching bag) who wants to use me to do her bidding, and so I will shit on her relentlessly. Is there a better way to handle this? I think sometimes what makes this women think I'll do this and that because she has that thing between her legs?