This is just my experience but when all those things are working in tandem your chances get way better. If any one is out of place then you're off. You need to be a full picture. Same goes for any girl. I don't dig girls who show no sexual interest and just want to be mind-charmed. I'm not making love to their brains I'm making love to all of them. Maybe I'm stating the obvious but sometimes shit just needs to get simplified.