When guys first find this site, (well at least for me) I was overwhelmed. It was like jumping in to the deep end without knowing how to swim. I always felt like I could do better by learning what to say, what to do, repeat etc. There was literally no end to this cycle. But what I wish I knew back then was that if your life is in order, these things you truly want come naturally. I look back at all the times I could have spent on improving myself and my life wasted by searching up more techniques and tricks. Now, I'm not saying these techniques don't work, but you just have to come from the right mindset. You can't build a house without having a sturdy foundation. Life is too short for us to worry about a missed technique or two. Seriously, no one knows when you are going to die. It could be 10 years from now, it could be tomorrow or even before you finish reading this post. No none knows. So why spend your (one and only) life trying so hard to please others? You could spend your life rather doing things you want, improving yourself, finding out who you truly are and how beautifully unique each one of us is. You are different and that's why people like you. Not you, but the true you without putting off a show. Your life should already be fun and awesome for just being with yourself. You need to get your life in order first, before you bring things in to your life to join in on your ride. Think of your life as like an ice cream. Everyone likes different kind of ice cream. So pick the one YOU like. Don't just pick the mint one ,even though you hate it, because everyone's doing it. NO! Fuck mint. Pick the life you want. Enjoy it. Then you add the toppings(girls, jobs etc) whatever it is. You don't focus on the materials, but you focus on what and how you want to live YOUR life. Fuck what the girl next door says. If you want it, get it. If you like it, do it. Do it for yourself. This is YOUR fucking life. You play by your rules. I want to end this post (I kinda rambled off) by stating something my grandpa said to me once. "Time is like a river. You cannot touch the same water twice, because the flow that has passed will never pass again." So guys, go fucking love yourself cause no matter what anyone EVER says to you, you are fucking amazing;)

Go live in the moment and shape the life that YOU want. tldr;haha I use to love these so much when I tried to learn as much techniques and tricks as fast as possible~

Go live YOUR life the way YOU want to live it. Yea, no kidding, right? Join clubs, sports teams whatever you feel like doing. Once you are happy with yourself(your true self) and your life, everything will naturally fall in to place. Make peace with it;)

c ya~~