The natural is what every guy in the pickup community aspires to be. The guy who effortlessly draws women to him in any situation. Naturals are envied by men and adored by all the girls. We all want to be him but we can never figure out just how to do it. We try by reading tips online and on forums to get some insight into his mindset so that we too can have the same results he does. I have been called a "natural" for quite some time now. Everywhere I go I seem to be able to get girls attracted to me by doing absolutely nothing. I simply am myself. I say things like "I don't really like to party. I like to write, read, take pictures, and go for hikes" or "actually I'm a bit shy and I don't consider myself confident or manly in the traditional sense"....Guess what? Girls are enthralled by me! They tell me how they've never met a guy like me in their entire life who was so comfortable being who he is. I never try to be confident therefore I am confident. I'm not that masculine, in fact I'm quite feminine. I'm not annoying loud. I'm rather quiet and reserved and guess what? Girls still want me! I've had girls come up and give me their phone numbers without me saying a word to them. I haven't ever used a pickup technique to get any girl I've been with. In fact Ive done probably done the opposite of what many dating coaches teach on the internet. There is no way for me to teach you how to become a natural. This piece of writing has no purpose whatsoever, I am simply writing it because I enjoy writing. A lot of guys come to me and ask for advice on how they can become attractive to girls. I always ask "why? Why do you want to be attractive?" They say something like "I don't feel attractive and girls don't pay attention to me and I feel shitty about it. If only I had a girl in my life, then I would be happy" The reason why you want to be more attractive is the same reason why you aren't. If you can understand that then you win. The best thing I can say to a guy is this "If you aren't happy now, if you don't feel attractive now, if you don't feel like you're enough now....then you won't when girls come into your life." Just be, don't try. Become involved in life and the world and say what is true to you. This will make you a happy man and when you're a happy man, girls will come to you without you doing anything. The girls that you cross paths with will never forget you. You will be admired, doted on and dated by girls all over the world. You will be a natural...